Grief has made it difficult to concentrate on much this week. It's crazy how much space sorrow takes up in our lives.
My friend, Kelly, passed away last Wednesday. She lost her incredibly hard-fought battle with cancer.
I have been thinking about what to write, but what can I say? I can't seem to get beyond three little children without a mommy. Or a devoted husband who misses his wife in the worst way. Not to mention her loving sister, parents and friends.
During her funeral service today, Kelly's father gave one of the most moving tributes I've ever heard. So did the priest that gave the homily. He had known her since she was a child.
One of the most inspiring aspects of Kelly's life of 45 years? According to friends, family and all who knew her (myself included), she lived voraciously- not only in her work but in her family life as well. She chose to prioritize those things most precious to her: family, friends and giving to those in need. Kelly knew something that too many of us forget: gratifying work is important, yes. But without paying attention to the rich layers that make up our lives, such as relationships, love and compassion, our work is one dimensional and uninspired.
I wish I could say more, since a life lived voraciously overflows with compelling stories, tender moments, heroic successes, crushing defeats and too many heartbeats to count. But I'm going to wager that a few words are better than none.
So thank you, Kelly, for inspiring us to be uncompromising in our giving and grateful in our receiving.
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